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Cheaters: What would you get away with?

  • How will she react if she catches you cheating?
  • Will she dump you?
  • Will she forgive you?

It all depends of what you did and where you live!

After surveying 613 females from our website, Facebook fan page and Twitter followers we have a fantastic insight into the female mind when her partner is caught with his pants down. So if you’re male and you want to know what you can get away with then read on. But be warned you cannot get away with very much.

I'm sure you have heard the phrase you can look but you can't touch? You may be surprised to know that if you are dating a girl from Great Britain you stand more chance of being dumped for looking than being forgiven, but in the United States the reverse is true. But in both regions and in fact the world you will be dumped for touching.

53.9% of British women would dump their man for looking at another woman!
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70.1% of British women & 58.1% of American women would dump their man for touching another woman!
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What was common amongst all the infidelity questions and responses was that American women are more forgiving than the British. Why? May be the British are still more reserved and expect partners to stick to the rules. May be the Americans are more liberal. Once the level of infidelity increases to much more intimate activities then the difference between the nations becomes smaller.

American women forgive cheating partners more than British women.
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So men with average luck could get away with looking, may scrape through with a quick grope, but what happens if they get caught kissing another woman?

Would it surprise you to know that kissing is a bigger sin that getting a hand job? If the other woman by-passes fore play and goes straight for your cock you have slightly better odds of not being dumped when compared to snogging. This trend was found globally and within the UK and US. The difference is marginal but nether the less is present. I think if you asked men to choose between a hand job or a kiss they would go for the former every time!

Cheating men who ask for a hand job are more likely to be forgiven than ones that ask for a kiss!
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If you get caught kissing (or more) then you are really in to the dumping territory, with 69.6% of women willing to give you the boot. Once you are kissing or into more intimate activities it is not looking likely she will forgive you. Globally, only 25.1% of women will forgive their man for having sex with another woman.

You have a 25.1% chance of her forgiving you sleeping with another woman
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Conclusions

In summary, it’s best not to look, touch or do anything. Or if you do, just don’t get caught! For all the survey data please read on and share any stats you find interesting via our 'tweet it' buttons.

Global data

Question Dump Forgive Dump % Forgive %
Your man looking at another woman? 271 342 44.2% 55.8%
Your man touching another woman? 369 228 61.8% 38.2%
Your man kissing another woman? 398 174 69.6% 30.4%
Your man receiving a hand job from another woman? 390 176 68.9% 31.1%
Your man receiving / giving oral sex with another woman? 408 140 74.5% 25.5%
Your man having sex with another woman? 403 135 74.9% 25.1%

United States VS United Kingdom

Question Dump (UK) Forgive (UK) Dump (US) Forgive (US)
Your man looking at another woman? 53.9% 46.1% 39.0% 61.0%
Your man touching another woman? 70.1% 29.9% 58.1% 41.9%
Your man kissing another woman? 72.7% 27.3% 68.3% 31.7%
Your man receiving a hand job from another woman? 72.3% 27.7% 68.0% 32.0%
Your man receiving / giving oral sex with another woman? 78.4% 21.6% 74.7% 25.3%
Your man having sex with another woman? 76.8% 23.2% 75.5% 24.5%

Press and media

If you would like to use any of these survey results in articles or publications please download our Infidelity Survey PDF results from our Media Bank.

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